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On the mind, relationships and decisions

Practical perspectives from psychology and coaching — on how you think, choose and build your relationships. No jargon, no miracle fixes.

Dragostea
Relationships
Love

A poem about how love changes shape across a lifetime opens a reflection on whether we're living our own definition of love, or someone else's.

Povestea mistrețului și cum ne alegem modelele în viață?
Psychology
The Story of the Wild Boar and How We Choose Our Role Models in Life

A parable about a hunter, a lioness, and a wounded boar — a reminder to choose our life models consciously, rather than imitating those who are simply suffering.

Momentul adevărului : cine ești Tu în viața ta?
Psychology
The Moment of Truth: Who Are You in Your Own Life?

A reflection on the courage it takes to stop living according to others' expectations and start listening to your own soul.

Rău faci, bine găsești?
Psychology
Sow Bad, Reap Good?

A moment of road rage becomes a lesson in why answering negativity with negativity never brings good into your life.

Sfârșit sau un nou început?
Psychology
An Ending or a New Beginning?

A meditation on how every ending can be seen as a new beginning, followed by a guided visualization exercise connecting you with your past and future self.

Tu ai timp să pierzi timpul?
Psychology
Do You Have Time to Waste Time?

On why living authentically means acting instead of merely thinking, talking, or dreaming about the life you want.

Avem nevoie de oameni și relații
Relationships
We Need People and Relationships

On why isolating ourselves in the name of self-sufficiency stops our growth, and why real relationships — especially with a partner — are where we're most challenged to evolve.

Trecerea timpului nu-ți rezolvă problemele
Psychology
Time Passing Won't Solve Your Problems

The passage of time doesn't heal what you haven't actively worked through — unresolved pain simply buries itself deeper and keeps shaping your choices.

Mai poți cu atâtea bagaje după tine?
Psychology
Can You Still Carry All That Baggage?

Stop for a moment and ask yourself who and what has shaped you most into who you are today — then follow that thread all the way to the baggage you no longer need to carry.